The world can be tough and exhausting, but a woman will always remember the one she feels calm with
A woman’s heart is no mystery if you know what buttons to push. The key is not to play the role of the “perfect man” but to become someone she won’t want to lose. But how to do it? What 5 secret tricks will make a woman fall in love with a man even stronger, told for RBC-Ukraine Life Coach Vitaliy Kursik.
Be her safe place
The world can be tough and exhausting, but a woman will always remember the one she feels calm with.
“Listen to her, support her, let her realise that she can be there for you as she is – without fear of being judged. This is the strongest foundation for deep feelings,” says the expert.
Make her laugh
If a man makes a woman laugh, he’s already halfway to her heart. Humour relieves tension, creates lightness in the relationship and makes you special to her.
“The main thing is to joke appropriately, without humiliation or sarcasm,” suggests Vitaly Kursik.
Take the initiative
Many men relax after conquering a woman, but she wants to feel like she’s being chosen every day.
“Plan a date, suggest a new activity, do something spontaneous. This shows that you care and ignites even more feelings in her,” the coach advises.
Be steady but not boring
It’s important for women to know that you can be relied on – you won’t disappear after the first problem.
“But at the same time, remain someone who surprises her: change your style, offer a new holiday, tell her about interesting plans. The balance between stability and the element of surprise keeps the feelings in tone,” emphasises the specialist.
Give her a sense of desirability
It’s important for a woman to know that she’s not just your friend, but someone you’re truly attracted to.
“Look at her with interest, compliment not only her appearance, but her character, her manner of movement, her smile. And don’t forget about touches – casual, gentle, but confident,” the expert adds.
The most important thing is not to try to force a woman to love you, but to create such conditions in which she herself will want it.
“Falling in love cannot be faked, but it can be enhanced by being someone with whom she feels special and safe,” summarises Vitaly Kursik.
